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From: Diana Ellison <>
Subject: Re: [GEN-UNSOLVED-MYSTERIES] Bruce Kramer-Hamilton/Cincinnati Ohio1956-1987
Date: Sun, 18 Mar 2007 15:59:16 -0700 (PDT)
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I was also going to suggest contacting AT&T but I see that someone else has suggested that. You never know until you ask. You might find a sympathetic soul. You might try to find out if they have any "old-timers" groups at AT&T. I think if you explain why you are seeking this information they might be forthcoming.

Someone also mentioned contacting the funeral home. If she came to the cemetery perhaps there would have been a guest book. It would be interesting to see if anyone visits his grave regularly on the anniversary of his death. Sometimes newspapers print a "memorial" on the anniversary of a death or the birthday of the deceased. Unfortunately the anniversary of his death just past but according to the SSDI his birthday was in June. I looked at the SSDI and found that he died in February 1987. You probably know that already.

Does the local paper have a "human interest" column or a "looking for..." section in the classified. I know that would be a long shot, but you never know.

I belong to but without knowing the child's name or the mother's last name it would be hard to find him. They could be living anywhere so this is truly like looking for a needle in a haystack.

Keep me posted of your progress. I love a great mystery myself.


Thank you Diana,

Bruce's sister has contacted the newspaper, it was splashed all over the front page and they made it out to be "tragic love triangle". Which wasn't the case at all. He hardly knew the woman. They are also suppose to be checking the birth announcements. I guess now they don't list the parents names in the paper, but back in the 80s they still were. So I'm really hoping that bears up something.

I already suggested that they search apartment building records and utilities, but found out they did not co-hab. I'm a researcher myself, so I came up with some of the usual ideas, but with their not living together its tough.

I placed the notice on this board as well as a few others hoping that maybe one day the young man might go searching on his own. Or a friend that knew Bruce might happen along. I'm been picking his sisters memories, but they had been living in seperate states for a few years, all of them, and just were not aware of his friends and what he did other than work.

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From: Diana Ellison

> A couple of ideas come to mind that you might research if you haven't already
> done so. Check with the main library of the town this unfortunate event
> happened in to see if there was a newspaper article that might have been printed
> that might contain her name. Also check with the library to see if they had a
> city directory of the time. I would assume there would have been a police
> report, so perhaps some kind hearted person at the police department would be
> able to look at the files and give you the name of the lady. Apparently they
> were renting and if the building is still standing perhaps a search of the real
> estate records would reveal who owned the building and they might have a record
> of who Bruce was living with. If the building is still standing, perhaps there
> are still people living there who would remember.
> Just some thoughts. Hopefully one will be helpful.
> Diana
> Reno, NV
> wrote:
> Hello all,
> The above mentioned person, Bruce Kramer, was the brother of a friend of mine.
> Bruce died at a young age, shot and killed while changing the door lock of an
> upstairs neighbor by an abusive spouse, who then killed his wife, then himself.
> Bruce had a child, a son, born just a few months before his death. To his sister
> Ilene's knowledge, they were not a couple, but good friends. Bruce was also very
> excited to be a father. It is unfortuante that Bruce's family was so distraught
> at the time of his death that they did not accord this woman any comfort. The
> only time the family saw the baby was when she brought her son with her to the
> cemetary, and they turned her away.
> Bruce's parents were Jewish and old fashioned. They were upset that, in their
> minds, the child was not born into a loving relationship. It was hard for them
> to see past this arrangement that was made between Bruce and this woman, whom
> they were told was Lesbian. I hate saying "her" or "this woman" but Ilene and
> her brothers don't know her name. She tried in vain to write to Bruce's parents,
> but they threw the letters away, and refused to talk about it with the other
> remaining children.
> Bruce's siblings would like to meet with this young man who should be 21 or
> close to adult age by this writing (March 18, 2007). Try to make up for the
> sadness and grief that was caused so long ago. We have nothing to go on about
> who she was or where they met or even what the child was called. Bruce worked
> for AT&T in Cincinnati at the time of his death. He died in the spring of 1987,
> approx. 30-31 years of age.
> If this story is familiar to anyone, can help us find Bruce Kramer's son and his
> mother we would appreciate it very much and they can reach them through me at
> this address.
> D. Leonard
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