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From: Fred Feather <>
Subject: Gentlemanly
Date: Sat, 10 Apr 2004 13:08:25 +0100
References: <sJvWaYM5D7dAFwGd@feather1.demon.co.uk><4076DBCE00001358@mk-cpfrontend-3.mail.uk.tiscali.com>
In-Reply-To: <4076DBCE00001358@mk-cpfrontend-3.mail.uk.tiscali.com>


Dear Cedric,

A gentleman's apology. I too am sorry that I got up grumpy this morning
but am still hoping for a starring role in Phantom of the Opera.

Best wishes,

Fred,
Chairman,
ESFH


In message <>,
writes
>Dear Fred and Listers,
>I apologise for my harsh words, and withdraw them unreservedly.
>My aim was to support someone who has been SO helpful and keen to help others,
>that in my haste I took the wrong approach and mistakenly attacked what
>I was trying to defend.
>
>Sorry mille fois for any offence thus caused.
>
>Best wishes
>Cedric Godfrey
>Nottingham UK
>***************
>
>
>>-- Original Message --
>>Date: Sat, 10 Apr 2004 09:31:53 +0100
>>From: Fred Feather <>
>>Subject: Judgement of our society
>>To:
>>
>>
>>Dear Cedric,
>>
>>As a lister I thought you might like to know another view about, what I
>
>>consider, an unfair statement made on the list, on which you have
>>commented and suggested we were spiteful. I wrote a gentle letter to ask
>>
>>advice from a member who buys and sells books and now write following a
>
>>statement published on Rootsweb and the resulting criticisms of our
>>Society. I fail to see any "instruction." I also had a complaint from
>>the owners of the 1861 census index (which we do not produce) about this
>>
>>use. Any decision would be made the next time we met and discussed the
>
>>matter. My letters may tell a different story.
>>
>>So, Cedric, that is us being spiteful. As someone who had just had a
>>large lump cut off his face I did not consider that was done to spite
>>anyone. But, often our words are used against us in a way we do not
>>intend.
>>
>>Best wishes,
>>
>>Fred,
>>A Chairman of ESFH who instructs no-one and has been frequently helping
>
>>people on the list for years.
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>In message <>,
>> writes
>>>Hello John
>>>Your enthusiastic generosity and offers of help appear to be too much
>for
>>>them!! Your kind offers of looks actually encouraged me to place an order
>>>with them for several floppies, although I did not know about them before
>>>your posting. Perhaps they are being spiteful/face/nose etc
>>>
>>>Kind regards
>>>Cedric Godfrey
>>>Nottingham UK
>>>
>>>post scriptum I am musing through your leaflet and will buy books from
>your
>>>list just as soon as our diy internal decorations are complete!!
>>>
>>>
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>>>
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>>
>>--
>>
>>
>
>
>__________________________________________________
>Broadband from an unbeatable £15.99!
>
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>
>
>

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