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Subject: [BRADFORD-L] From Dale300@aol.com
Date: Sun, 22 Aug 1999 13:28:08 EDT


Hi Rob,
You wouldn't believe who is visiting us!?! Eleanor and her friend!! We are
having the best time! By the way, before I forget, Cinda's E -Mail address
is:
When we were discussing Mother and her asking me to move out, I really want
to say this in all fairness to her that she really thought she was helping me
and thought it was the right time to go face what I had to face. She was
right too. I just was taken a back abit - but she really did not mean it
badly and I didn't say that on the phone to you and felt I was being unfair
to her. (I am not coming from my usual paranoid self but saying it because of
my sense of fair play here). The only real flaws I ever really took notice
of was criticalness which I also have and Junior League kind of stuff. So,
if that is all I can say on the negative side, then Mother did a fantastic
job - we all tunrned out pretty good I think!! I think it is good to know
the source of how we think but I firmly believe that we make our own choices
and cannot blame anyone but ourselves for the choices we make. Anyway, you
sounded so happy and you just made me feel very good talking to you. I think
you are handling your family situation (Kara) extremely well. I think by you
taking the high road here will in the end pay off for you and if not, you can
at least feel good about yourself. That counts for alot too you know.
Well, got to run. E Mail me back if you want to. I had such a good time at
Cinda's and wish we all lived closer together. We just are going to have to
make more of an effort to see each other again. You know, I think that the
three of us really do extraordinairly well keeping in touch and especially
that we are so many miles apart. The one thing that I want is to meet Viviana
and Julia. Viviana I have liked from the very beginning and feel even without
meeting her that we have alot in common. I am just dying to meet her. That
little Julia, well, I just want to squeeze her - she is so cute!!
Keep in touch!
Love you,
Dale

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