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From: "Vaughn Hageman" <>
Subject: Re: [ARIZARD] ARIZARD Digest, Vol 1, Issue 384
Date: Thu, 21 Dec 2006 08:36:08 -0800
In-Reply-To: <003b01c7251d$b377a330$e5ea86d8@your4dacd0ea75>


Good Morning Everyone,
I'm not responding to anyone just trying to see if my adjustments to my
computor still allow me to access my family websites. Thanks, everyone have
a merry Christmas
Vaughn


>From: "Ilene Stevenson" <>
>Reply-To:
>To: <>
>Subject: Re: [ARIZARD] ARIZARD Digest, Vol 1, Issue 384
>Date: Thu, 21 Dec 2006 10:33:09 -0600
>
>Jean, That's the right decision, pray for all of us. This is a very helpful
>sight to those of us who are serious about our ancestors & of helping
>others. We're all ready to forget, go on, and support you. Merry Christmas
>to all. And Remember Jesus is the Reason for the Season.
>Ilene
>----- Original Message -----
>From: <>
>To: <>
>Sent: Wednesday, December 20, 2006 9:41 PM
>Subject: ARIZARD Digest, Vol 1, Issue 384
>
>
> >
> >
> > Today's Topics:
> >
> > 1. Good Evening (Jean Cuevas)
> > 2. Re: Good Evening (Don Ott)
> > 3. Puckett (Vera Reeves)
> > 4. Long - Thrasher marriage (Vera Reeves)
> > 5. Re: Seeking New List Owner (jackson family)
> > 6. Thrasher (Vera Reeves)
> > 7. Woods (Vera Reeves)
> > 8. Barksdale (Vera Reeves)
> >
> >
> > ----------------------------------------------------------------------
> >
> > Message: 1
> > Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 22:13:46 -0500
> > From: Jean Cuevas <>
> > Subject: [ARIZARD] Good Evening
> > To:
> > Message-ID: <>
> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii"; format=flowed
> >
> > Dear List Members,
> >
> > First let me say that I am humbled by so much support and love from
> > those of you who have responded to my message. I am sorry that it's
> > been so long since I was able to get back with you. I sent the
> > message out just before work this morning, and it's been a long
> > day. My daughter and I have been out trying to wrap up last minute
> > shopping, and here it is almost 10:00!
> >
> > I just want to discuss this situation with you, and explain a little
> > of where I was coming from this morning. I appreciate the fact that
> > this is a genealogy list, and that it's a place where a lot of folks
> > have come over the years, to gain knowledge of their ancestry and to
> > connect with others who have the same interest in researching, so I
> > don't want to have a lot of disruption, and I don't want a feud going
> > on, which will take a toll on the quality of this list. So, after I
> > explain myself, I would ask that there be no more on the list
> > discussion of the subject. It's very important to get the list back
> > to normal again.
> >
> > As I told this person in a private message. I have no animosity
> > toward him, and I do want his ultimate good. I have never wanted to
> > make a decision such as I have had to do. It's against my
> > personality to enjoy conflict. However, I made the choice that I
> > did, for the good of the list. I contacted Listowners-L and shared
> > some of what had been going on with them, and the support for my
> > decision was unanimous. They agreed that the decision I made was the
> > right one, so I don't think that there's a problem from that end.
> >
> > I am being accused of causing this person great emotional stress, and
> > defaming his character. I certainly have no desire to cause him
> > stress, and add to any personal problems he's having right now. I
> > believe the best thing that I can possibly do for him is to pray for
> > his well being, and that he will ultimately find peace in his
> > life. I don't plan to respond to his messages anymore, as it has
> > been taken out of context and misconstrued, every time I have tried
> > to explain.
> >
> > He did say that a my personal message to someone on the list had been
> > forwarded to him, and I certainly am an open book. However, I don't
> > wish to have people stirring up the pot all the time, so I would ask
> > you that if you have had any part in doing so, could you please
> > refrain from now on? This is not a high school situation, where
> > clicks take sides. If this person wishes to read the Archives, they
> > are there to be read. It's a public forum. But, this is also a list
> > where we want to remain amiable to one another, and that will not
> > occur, if people find it necessary to fuel the fire.
> >
> > With having said all this, I believe that with your kind support, I
> > will continue for now to be your List Mom. However, if it ever comes
> > to a time when I know that my being one is not good for the list, I
> > will certainly turn the reins over to someone who also cares about
> > the list and its best interests.
> >
> > I can't tell you how much you have surprised me with your responses,
> > and how much I appreciate your love and support.
> >
> > And, with that said.....let's get back to genealogy!!
> >
> > Love,
> >
> > Jean
> >
> >
> >
> > ------------------------------
> >
> > Message: 2
> > Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 21:21:10 -0600
> > From: Don Ott <>
> > Subject: Re: [ARIZARD] Good Evening
> > To:
> > Message-ID: <>
> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii"; format=flowed
> >
> > Jean,
> > Thank you for continuing to support this list. I have sent
> > my other messages in private to you but I want everyone to know that
> > I am in full support of your decision to continue monitoring this
> > list. It is the best by far.
> > Thanks, Merry Christmas
> > Don Ott
> >
> >
> > At 09:13 PM 20-12-06, you wrote:
> >>Dear List Members,
> >>
> >>First let me say that I am humbled by so much support and love from
> >>those of you who have responded to my message. I am sorry that it's
> >>been so long since I was able to get back with you. I sent the
> >>message out just before work this morning, and it's been a long
> >>day. My daughter and I have been out trying to wrap up last minute
> >>shopping, and here it is almost 10:00!
> >>
> >>I just want to discuss this situation with you, and explain a little
> >>of where I was coming from this morning. I appreciate the fact that
> >>this is a genealogy list, and that it's a place where a lot of folks
> >>have come over the years, to gain knowledge of their ancestry and to
> >>connect with others who have the same interest in researching, so I
> >>don't want to have a lot of disruption, and I don't want a feud going
> >>on, which will take a toll on the quality of this list. So, after I
> >>explain myself, I would ask that there be no more on the list
> >>discussion of the subject. It's very important to get the list back
> >>to normal again.
> >>
> >>As I told this person in a private message. I have no animosity
> >>toward him, and I do want his ultimate good. I have never wanted to
> >>make a decision such as I have had to do. It's against my
> >>personality to enjoy conflict. However, I made the choice that I
> >>did, for the good of the list. I contacted Listowners-L and shared
> >>some of what had been going on with them, and the support for my
> >>decision was unanimous. They agreed that the decision I made was the
> >>right one, so I don't think that there's a problem from that end.
> >>
> >>I am being accused of causing this person great emotional stress, and
> >>defaming his character. I certainly have no desire to cause him
> >>stress, and add to any personal problems he's having right now. I
> >>believe the best thing that I can possibly do for him is to pray for
> >>his well being, and that he will ultimately find peace in his
> >>life. I don't plan to respond to his messages anymore, as it has
> >>been taken out of context and misconstrued, every time I have tried
> >>to explain.
> >>
> >>He did say that a my personal message to someone on the list had been
> >>forwarded to him, and I certainly am an open book. However, I don't
> >>wish to have people stirring up the pot all the time, so I would ask
> >>you that if you have had any part in doing so, could you please
> >>refrain from now on? This is not a high school situation, where
> >>clicks take sides. If this person wishes to read the Archives, they
> >>are there to be read. It's a public forum. But, this is also a list
> >>where we want to remain amiable to one another, and that will not
> >>occur, if people find it necessary to fuel the fire.
> >>
> >>With having said all this, I believe that with your kind support, I
> >>will continue for now to be your List Mom. However, if it ever comes
> >>to a time when I know that my being one is not good for the list, I
> >>will certainly turn the reins over to someone who also cares about
> >>the list and its best interests.
> >>
> >>I can't tell you how much you have surprised me with your responses,
> >>and how much I appreciate your love and support.
> >>
> >>And, with that said.....let's get back to genealogy!!
> >>
> >>Love,
> >>
> >>Jean
> >>
> >>
> >>-------------------------------
> >>To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to
> >> with the word 'unsubscribe' without the
> >>quotes in the subject and the body of the message
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > ------------------------------
> >
> > Message: 3
> > Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 21:28:15 -0600
> > From: "Vera Reeves" <>
> > Subject: [ARIZARD] Puckett
> > To: <>
> > Message-ID: <000601c724b0$0d4d6b10$>
> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1"
> >
> > Calico Rock Progress - Jan 1, 1926 - Mrs Fannie G. Puckett
> > The funeral of Mrs Fannie G. Puckett, age 81, who died at the home
>of
> > her daughter, Mrs J. O. Sorrels, at Antlers, Okla., December 22, 1925
>was
> > held at the New Liberty Cemetery, two miles south of Violet Hill,
>Friday,
> > the 25th, with Eld. Joe Blue of Morriston conducting the services.
> > Deceased was one of the pioneer residents of this country and was a
>highly
> > respected woman. Practically all her life was spent in this county and
>she
> > leaves a host of relatives and friends. She went to Oklahoma about nine
> > months ago to visit with relatives. Deceased is survived by nine grown
> > children.
> >
> >
> > ------------------------------
> >
> > Message: 4
> > Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 21:30:37 -0600
> > From: "Vera Reeves" <>
> > Subject: [ARIZARD] Long - Thrasher marriage
> > To: <>
> > Message-ID: <000d01c724b0$61fcccf0$>
> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1"
> >
> > Calico Rock Progress - Jan 1, 1926 - Wedding Kept Secret
> > The many friends and acquaintances of Rev Burl N. Long and Miss Ethel
> > Thrasher were completely surprised last week when announcement was made
> > upon arrival of the groom here from Kentucky that the young couple were
> > married and to make the surprise more complete, it was divulged that the
> > wedding took place in September, 1924 and had been kept secret from
>every
> > one, except only one or two relatives. The ceremony was performed by
>Rev.
> > Roy M. Black one day during the progress of the Calico Rock Fair.
> >
> > Mr Long has been in Kentucky for over two years attending school and
> > serving as pastor of a church, being now located at London, Ky. He was
> > reared in this vicinity and is well known to every one. He is a splendid
> > young man, just entering upon the first years of his ministry and a
>bright
> > future is predicted for him.
> >
> > The bride is a popular and estimable young lady of Calico Rock and is
> > surrounded by a host of friends. She has been living in Calico Rock for
> > four or five years and is highly esteemed by all. She expects to join
>her
> > husband in Kentucky in a few months.
> >
> >
> > ------------------------------
> >
> > Message: 5
> > Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 19:32:48 -0800
> > From: "jackson family" <>
> > Subject: Re: [ARIZARD] Seeking New List Owner
> > To: <>
> > Message-ID: <085201c724b0$b03cb100$>
> > Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1";
> > reply-type=original
> >
> > There may be a freedom of speech but doesn't rootsweb also give the list
> > owner the right to a closed list if they so choose which means Jean can
> > choose who she wants on her list..
> > It would be a nice Christmas gift to hear that Jean is NOT giving up
>this
> > list because of some idiot...
> > I think the majority has spoken and we all want Jean to stay...so how
> > about
> > it, will you stay????
> > I have a guy on one of the Cherokee lists I am on who is always
> > threatening
> > to sue me cause I exposed him as a fraud but I just shine him on....big
> > talk, no action...figures he can bully people into his way of
>thinking...
> > So just ignore this person who is threatening you and worry about it
>when
> > you have been served with legal papers(which won't ever happen)
> > Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all
> > Helen
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: "candyandrick" <>
> > To: <>
> > Sent: Wednesday, December 20, 2006 7:12 AM
> > Subject: Re: [ARIZARD] Seeking New List Owner
> >
> >
> >> Oh Jean, Jean, Jean. Such silly talk! This list is YOUR list and
> >> without
> >> you it would surely dry up and expire. And like some of the other
> >> comments
> >> made, I suspect I know who has threatened you with a lawsuit. This is
>a
> >> common thing for people with no common sense to say when they don't get
> >> their way or have been shamed by their errant behavior.
> >>
> >> I am by know means a lawyer nor do I play one on TV (come on, you can
> >> smile
> >> at that!). But having spent 20 years in law enforcement I do know a
> >> thing
> >> or two. Mercy me I don't know how many times I was threatened with one
> >> because I took Little Johnny to jail. Funny thing, I never did have
>one
> >> filed against me.
> >>
> >> Everyone who types messages about others on a public forum can be
> >> scrutinized for slander and I imagine that is what has been threatened.
> >> I
> >> do not recall you ever saying anything slanderous on this forum,
> >> especially
> >> with the intent of doing so and intent is a big factor in these types
>of
> >> cases. Plus I seriously doubt any attorney worth his salt, even a
>hungry
> >> one, would assist in filing such a frivolous case as this. As an
>example,
> >> I
> >> had thoughts of suing a fella who lives in California who slandered me
> >> severely over a transaction we made on eBay. He bought something from
> >> me,
> >> never paid and when I e-mailed him letting him know I was going to
>cancel
> >> the bid/sale and post negative feedback about that transaction he
> >> proceeded
> >> to respond with verbal tirades, cussings and actual threats. I saved
>all
> >> of
> >> it and talked to a friend who was an attorney and while he agreed the
>man
> >> was wrong and there was a case, no one would file it as it was too
>minor
> >> and
> >> involved someone who lived far away. I was advised to just forget
>about
> >> it
> >> and go on...which I believed was good advise.
> >>
> >> Also, if I remember correctly, wasn't he doing a little slandering of
> >> another person himself? Hmmm....maybe that person should get their
> >> attorney
> >> and threaten to file a lawsuit on him! I doubt he thought that could
> >> happen
> >> back at him.
> >>
> >> I believe you have the "right to refuse service" to anyone since this
>is
> >> your page. True, it is a public page but if I remember correctly you
>can
> >> say who can join or not join and can delete things and folks that are
> >> deemed
> >> to be doing or writing things that are inappropriate. While the 1st
> >> Amendment does give people the right to free speech...there are some
> >> stipulations to how far that right may extend.
> >>
> >> Forget this guy...ignore his threats...block his a-mails to you if he
> >> can.
> >> And keep on doing what you've been doing. Good Lord girl! If you
>hadn't
> >> been in charge of this forum there would have been anarchy and
>revolution
> >> by
> >> now and the site would have been shut down by Rootsweb a long time ago!
> >>
> >> Stay...'nuff said. Besides, I need you to keep me in line!
> >>
> >> Rick Lawrence - Tulsa
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >> ----- Original Message -----
> >> From: "Jean Cuevas" <>
> >> To: <>
> >> Sent: Wednesday, December 20, 2006 4:16 AM
> >> Subject: [ARIZARD] Seeking New List Owner
> >>
> >>
> >>> Good Morning Izard Family.
> >>>
> >>> I am wondering whether I have anyone on the list for a long time who
> >>> would like to take over its management? I know that there area any
> >>> number of you who would do a good job . Because I truly care about
> >>> the health of the list, I will try to make a really good selection
> >>> from those who respond.
> >>>
> >>> I have never been a power hungry person, and have always acted in a
> >>> way that I felt was best for the list as a whole. However, it
> >>> appears that my basic desire for the list's good has been taken to
> >>> mean that I am a power hungry person, and I have been threatened with
> >>> a lawsuit. The list is a genealogy list, and doesn't need to be
> >>> effected by anything that may happen in the future.
> >>>
> >>> If you believe that you would honestly be willing to take the list
> >>> and care for it and the members who are on it, without changing the
> >>> family atmosphere that it has always had, please contact me privately.
> >>>
> >>> Thank you!
> >>>
> >>> Jean
> >>>
> >>>
> >>> -------------------------------
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> >>> with the word 'unsubscribe' without the
> >>> quotes in the subject and the body of the message
> >>>
> >>>
> >>> --
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> >>> Version: 7.1.409 / Virus Database: 268.15.24/592 - Release Date:
> >>> 12/18/2006
> >>>
> >>>
> >>
> >>
> >> -------------------------------
> >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to
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> >> quotes in the subject and the body of the message
> >>
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > ------------------------------
> >
> > Message: 6
> > Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 21:34:11 -0600
> > From: "Vera Reeves" <>
> > Subject: [ARIZARD] Thrasher
> > To: <>
> > Message-ID: <001401c724b0$e1ba5e80$>
> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1"
> >
> > Calico Rock Progress - Jan 29, 1926 - Henry Thrasher Denies Report That
>He
> > Was Killed
> >
> > Henry Thrasher, formerly of Iuka in this county states that the
> > reports of his being shot and killed at Sapulpa, Okla., recently are
> > untrue and without foundation. He asks the Progress to publish the
> > following statement:
> >
> >
> >
> > Portales, New Mexico
> >
> > Jan 20, 1936 ??? (should be 1926)
> >
> > To My Arkansas Friends:
> >
> > The report that was published in Baxter County papers that I was
> > shot and killed at Sapulpa, Okla., is a false report. I am now in the
> > produce business here. I would be glad if this would be published so my
> > friends will know I am still living and haven't has any trouble of any
> > kind. Best wishes to everybody. -----------------------------------
> > Henry Thrasher.
> >
> >
> >
> > (NOTE: the article mentioned here was in the Baxter Bulletin Jan 15,
>1926
> > issue. "Henry Thrasher, a former citizen of Iuka died one day last week
>in
> > an altercation at Sapulpa, Okla., Survivors are his mother and two
> > sisters.)
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > ------------------------------
> >
> > Message: 7
> > Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 21:37:15 -0600
> > From: "Vera Reeves" <>
> > Subject: [ARIZARD] Woods
> > To: <>
> > Message-ID: <001b01c724b1$5102fc70$>
> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1"
> >
> > Calico Rock Progress - Feb 26, 1926 - Dan Woods Found Dead Near Iuka
> > Going for Doctor Thursday Night, Dies by Roadside.
> >
> > Dan Woods, a man of about 40 years of age, living in the vicinity
>of
> > Iuka, was found dead by the roadside on-half mile from Iuka early
>Thursday
> > night.
> >
> > Woods had been at Iuka a few hours before his death and had
>started
> > home. He became violently ill while going along the road and decided to
> > turn back and go to Dr Mason's home for medical aid, but had only gone a
> > short way when he met a neighbor, who volunteered to run on ahead and
>get
> > the doctor. Woods was in considerable agony and when the man returned to
> > him, Woods' lifeless body was found by the roadside. It is stated that
> > indications point to his having been poisoned by drinking bad whiskey,
>as
> > his tongue was badly swollen and other indications that belief.
> >
> > Woods has lived in this part of the country practically all his
>life
> > and had been living in the neighborhood of Iuka for 5 or 6 years. He is
> > survived by his wife and five children.
> >
> > An inquest was to have been held today by the Justice of the Peace
> > as the county is without a coroner at present.
> >
> >
> >
> > (Iuka being near the Baxter County. The 1920 census was checked. Norfork
> > Twp, Baxter County census shows a Dan Woods about the right age. No
> > listing for him was in the Baxter or Izard County cemetery books.)
> >
> >
> > ------------------------------
> >
> > Message: 8
> > Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 21:41:22 -0600
> > From: "Vera Reeves" <>
> > Subject: [ARIZARD] Barksdale
> > To: <>
> > Message-ID: <002201c724b1$e25aa0b0$>
> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1"
> >
> > Calico Rock Progress - Mar 12, 1926 - News of Guion
> > Sam Cotham left Tuesday with Mrs Will Haley and Mrs Tom Simmons
>for
> > Anderson, being called to the bedside of their grandfather, Mr
>Barksdale,
> > who is not expected to live.
> >
> > NOTES
> >
> > (Ray Cemetery: J. T. W. (Warsaw) Barksdale - no dates - Shavors
>Regt
> > Ark Inf CSA)
> >
> > (Ark Death Record Index - James T. Barksdale d. 3-16-1926 in Izard
> > County)
> >
> > (Ark Confederate Veterans and Widows Pension Application - shows -
> > J. T. W. died 3-16-1926)
> >
> > (Laura Barksdale applied for pension 8-19-1926 in Izard County and
> > she died 6-4-1932)
> >
> >
> > ------------------------------
> >
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